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Nervous at first 6/6/2005
It seems that the first time I'm with a women, I get very
nervous. Sometimes it affect my ability to get get a hard-on.
After the first, there doesn't seem to a probablem.
Antone else have this problem? Any advice on how to over
come it?
0 Commentaires, 367 Consultations,
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The First Meeting 6/6/2005
Hi all, just wondering if anyone had any good ideas or what
works for you as a place for a first meeting? or what do you
do on that first meeting?
I personally try to meet somewhere that's public (very
public) and that provides a place to sit and relax to talk.
I mean after all, after we talk, or while we are talking,
we can decide to go to that restaurant, bar, etc... provided
we are ...
0 Commentaires, 175 Consultations,
2 Votes
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how it went 4/6/2005
We are meeting for the first time. We have exchanged pictures.
We have exchanged e- mail. We have chatted on line. I am meeting
you at the airport. You are flying in from another part of
the state. I am nervous and I hope you are also.
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I changed my clothes at least ten times trying to find just
the right thing to wear for our first meeting. I settled
on a floral ...
1 Commentaires, 317 Consultations,
11 Votes
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How would you make someone not feel nervous 2/6/2005
I am going to be one of those very nervous first time girls.
I'm hoping someone will gently introduce me to the
first time experince of being with a female.
So next time all you girls or guys go and meet the other person
for there first time experince with the same sex then maybe
you could stop and think that they maybe as nervouse as all
hell so try and suduce them and make them feal ...
0 Commentaires, 265 Consultations,
10 Votes
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Be who you claim to be! It never pays to pretend 2/6/2005
I met a girl the other night who was not at all who she claimed
to be. I kissed her once because I was drunk, but she left
a bad taste in my mouth, so I left. How disenchating!
0 Commentaires, 181 Consultations,
2 Votes
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My date with Robert from dmec.com 2/6/2005
We had emailed and chatted for over two months before we
finally met. He knew everything abouth me. I arrived at
his home about 10 am, he's long divorced and had several
failed relationships with natural women and he was convinced
that a willing crossdresser would be better. He was so nice.
Dim lights in a comfortable living room. Soft music and
cocktails on the couch. A lot of small talk, ...
1 Commentaires, 1325 Consultations,
14 Votes
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Will that first date come 1/6/2005
As we are all in hear to find what we find sexually arrosing
and i think i will find it in a female it looks so relaxing
and fun so pussy wetting to touch of lips make me cum over
and over till it cant be couped her to the girls out there
looking to find there fun in female
GO GIRLS GO
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What is it that would turn you completely OFF on a first date? 1/6/2005
That can be a very difficult question for some, only because
it seems as if the more your date has in common with your general
requirements, the more you'll let them slide on things
that you may dislike.
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However, I don't care how much money a man has or how
great-looking he is (or even how big his dick may appear
underneath those fine slacks), the minute he starts to
brag, ...
1 Commentaires, 268 Consultations,
9 Votes
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Recent date with a member 25/5/2005
I arrived early about 9:30 am. The house was very dimly lit
as i entered the door. He was very nice and pointed to the
bathroom to get dressed. I joined him in the living room
where he had a porno film on the big screen. He handed me a
drink of vodka and orange juice and he was very sweet as he
started a conversation. His sound system was incredible
and had a great selection of music. And ...
1 Commentaires, 1487 Consultations,
47 Votes
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out of town 24/5/2005
Like most meetings on dmec.com, the connection was long distance.
She lived about 200 clicks south of me, in the second biggest
town in New Mexico. We are spread pretty far apart here in
the Southwest.
The electricity must have come thru the wires, because
it was lust at first encounter. We hit it off and decided
that we had to meet one of these days, and then it grew into
how about next ...
1 Commentaires, 269 Consultations,
5 Votes
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1st Date Sex Leads to Long-term Relationships 24/5/2005
It's possible that I'm the only person this ever
happens to, but I doubt it. I have had 3 relationships lasting
about one year. two of those involved sex on the first date.
The shortest of the three made me wait for a couple of weeks.
If you meet somone special you should not wait to have sex
with them. Everyone knows that at some time or another you
have had sex on a first date. If ...
0 Commentaires, 280 Consultations,
9 Votes
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surprised 24/5/2005
we were sitting at a pub next to the sea. it was a breezy night.
we chatted and laughed. he asked me if someone ever petted
with me before. i asked him what is that. he was surprised
by my reply. then we left the pub as he offered to pet with
me. he led me to his car and we petted, sucked..
1 Commentaires, 1512 Consultations,
38 Votes
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sex on the first 23/5/2005
ok so here it is again. now im sure in some point in time everybody
has done it, some people regret it, some people live for
it, but why does it seam that it is always intense and exceptionaly
good
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1st 3sum 21/5/2005
My wife Rose and I had been fantasizing about her getting
fucked by another man for quite a while. I looked around
on the web for months before I finally talked to Mike. I told
him I wanted to see a current STD test including proof of
-HIV. Mike had some experience arranging gangbangs and
3sums. It took some time to convince Rose to at least meet
with Mike.
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...
3 Commentaires, 1524 Consultations,
42 Votes
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cant do them!! 12/5/2005
although i try so hard i just can't seem to impress the
woman i am after. so i think i may stop tryin to impress them
and try harder to press 4 my dreams rather than the dreams
of others.... hopefully i can find similar dreams
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4 Votes
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Typoglocemia 10/5/2005
Don't delete this because it looks weird. Believe
it or not you can read it ...
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I cdnuolt blveiee taht I cluod aulaclty uesdnatnrd waht
I was rdanieg The phaonmneal pweor of the hmuan mnid Aoccdrnig
to rscheearch taem at Cmabrigde Uinervtisy, it deosn't
mttaer in waht oredr the ltteers in a wrod are, the olny iprmoatnt
tihng is taht the frist and lsat ltteer be in the rghit ...
2 Commentaires, 471 Consultations,
32 Votes
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The Cock 9/5/2005
I recently began having conversations with a man that like
me is bi-curious we talked awhile before finally meeting
on a back road to check each others packages out. I talk to
him awhile and he didn't really feel as though he wanted
to show what he had between his loins. I got into his vehicle
and he pulled out his cock and I must admit that it had a pretty
tight heat and once I wrapped ...
0 Commentaires, 1254 Consultations,
29 Votes
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Date with work colleague 6/5/2005
I'm due to take a girl from work out for a drink on Friday.
We both have partners but agree it could be fun seeing each
other. Is it a case of what our partners don't know won't
hurt them?
2 Commentaires, 525 Consultations,
9 Votes
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Communication. 4/5/2005
You know, it is tough to feel if a first date went good or bad,
when u cannot find who you went with to talk to them. Even
if it was a bad date, that person should tell you.
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2005-04-29
The Skirt
20 years. 20 years of marriage. 20 years of control. 20 years
of frustration.
I married my high school sweetheart half way through university.
His background and family didn’t want us to live together
unless we were married and we wanted to save rent. I was a
virgin until our honeymoon night. I was looking forward
to experiencing sex so much, but it went flat. He came inside
me so fast that I barely felt anything except pain. It didn’t
get a lot better. He only seemed to think of himself, leaving
my pleasure ignored. One time I asked if he could lick me
below, but he got so angry that he slapped me and left a bruise
on my cheek.
He wouldn’t let me go out by myself. I had to defend my whereabouts
to him constantly. When we did go out together he was always
looking around to see who was watching me. I wasn’t bad looking,
but I ended up wearing frumpy clothes to avoid gathering
attention ‒ which I so desperately wanted!
Four years ago I decided it was time for something
to change.
I was getting older, yet there was no talk of children. I
stopped taking my birth control without him knowing. I
knew my cycle, and at the right time, I enticed him to have
sex. After three or four months, I found
out I was pregnant.
I thought that if he had a child to love, he would love me as
well. How mistaken I was!
After two years of mental abuse, I knew that he loved
neither
me nor my son. Then he left. I came home from work one day,
and all his things were gone! There was a message for me to
call his lawyer. How blind I was! He had been seeing another
girl on the side for years! He had finally run off with her,
leaving me with our son and the house. He offered to leave
me to house if I didn’t seek child support. I was OK with that
as I didn’t want him to have any rights with our son. I sold
the house and moved in with my sister. She has two
kids and
kicked her husband out. She is in business and took control
when things were going badly.
I moped around for a few months, not sure what to do with my
life. I started working for my sister’s company, which
worked out well, and hung around the house, not sure what
to do. Sis started to encourage me to get out a little. She
was always telling me how sexy I was. My son is still breastfeeding
three or four times a day, and I’m a 38DD
because of it. I have
a nice bum, and I have managed to get in pretty reasonable
shape after the baby.
Then she showed me “the skirt.” She had bought it, but could
never bring herself to wear it. It was black and short. Not
mini-short, more of micro-short. I tried it on for her to
see. If I pulled the top down just to the top of my bum crack,
the bottom would cover my privates ‒ only just. I felt so
sexy in that skirt! I dreamed about going out in it and getting
attention. I looked for tops to go with it and found just
what I needed. I don’t like bras and wear one as little as
possible. My nipples are big and hard much of the time, not
to mention they occasionally leak. I found a lemon yellow
t-shirt that fit and hung beautifully. It showed the shape
of my breasts, let my nipples poke out, and stopped about
two inches above my belly button. Of course it was
several
inches out from my stomach at that point, but that added
to the effect! But when could I wear it? Who could I go out
with, dressed like that?
My sister had her friend, a professional photographer,
over a few weeks ago. They were talking about glamour photography
and how she’d like to practice before hiring a professional
model. I volunteered and we played around for a while. In
the end there was only on picture she liked, and she gave
me a copy. It was more work that I expected, but it was a hot
picture! She also got one of my sister in “the skirt”.
Then I found dmec.com. Could I find someone on there to help me
get through my desires? Would there be a place for me to wear
my new sexy outfit? Could I find someone who could give me
the pleasure I’d never had?
It didn’t take long to find out. I put up the pictures I had,
along with a pretty broad description of what I wanted.
Within hours of it going live, hundreds of responses started
coming in. It was hard to keep up, but boy, did it give me some
confidence in myself! One of the first guys I chatted with
invited me to meet him and a couple of his friends invited
me to a bar on Thursday night. It was going to happen! I was
excited all day about it, thinking about how sexy it would
be and how people would look at me! I called a cab and went
out in the wind and rain. My coat didn’t show much to the cabbie,
but I could tell that he was liked what he could see. In the
bar, I found my “date” right away.
Why are men so mean? In the first five minutes of
me showing
up dressed so sexily for him, he laughed at me, put me down,
called me nasty names, then wanted to touch me! I admit that
my outfit said “touch me!”, but it sure would be nice if we
could have established a bit of a rapport first!
Then it happened. I was just about in tears, wanting so badly
to get up and go home, when a girl in the booth next to us came
over. Did she ever tell those guys where to go! She told them
straight out how nasty they sounded and how hurtful the
words were! I was so in awe of her forwardness. Then she said,
“Would you like to come with me, these guys certainly don’t
seem to have much to offer you!”
Bernice was my age, my height, brown hair, green eyes, a
little heavier than me, wearing a tight black skirt and
a stretchy black t-shirt. She wasn’t wearing a bra either,
but she didn’t show as much as I was. I got up to follow her,
and she suggested to go to another bar to get away. I agreed,
we retrieved our coats and got a cab. Bernice had just had
a fight with her boyfriend. He’d gone out for a smoke (part
of the argument) and she told him she was leaving and moving
out. While he was out of the bar, getting drenched for the
sake of a smoke, she heard the guys berating me and decided
to step in.
As we walked into the second bar, all eyes turned and all
conversation stopped. I almost wanted to run away, then
decided to make the most of it. I did a quick turn to say something
to Bernice, and made sure that my skirt lifted enough for
everyone to see that there was nothing underneath. There
was a bit of a collective gasp. We sat in a somewhat secluded
booth and ordered some wine. We started to talk about our
pasts, our lives, and our desires. She too had had some bad
experiences with guys, and told me how turned on she was
by women, particularly me. She gently asked if she could
touch my breasts. Of course she could! She was so gentle
and it was so exciting! I asked her to touch lower down, where
nobody by I had touched with hands before. She didn’t even
have to lift my skirt to find me damp. She whispered “Lets
leave that for later” and I agreed.
At that point, two rude guys who had been watching
us came
over and went straight into some rude remarks and suggestions.
We told them in no uncertain terms where they could go! I
let Bernice take the lead, and loved the feeling of control
when we turned them away, knowing that they wanted us! A
little while later, over our third drink, another guy came
in and joined them. We could see that they were setting him
up for a tongue lashing from the two of us, and he
approached.
He was kind, polite and gentle. We invited him to sit between
the two of us. Sure enough, he’d been set up, but
he refused
to be crude or suggestive, though he did let us know how sexy
he found us. As a “reward”, Bernice suggested that he touch
both of us below and let his friends smell what they had lost
out on by being so rude! Yes, he went for it, yes they saw it,
yes they gave him a very hard time!
By this time I had a good buzz going. I don’t drink much and
I was feeling it. Bernice wanted to touch me again. I agreed
as long as it was reciprocal. My touching her soft breasts
was such a turn on! I could feel my body reacting as she touched
my breasts. At this point the manager came over, sat with
us for a minute (bringing drinks “on the house” and told
us that while he appreciated our business, we should be
careful as he could get in trouble for allowing “lewd acts
in public” as could we. We stopped the touching, but held
hands and got drunker (is that a word?). We couldn’t stop
completely, and then it happened. Her hand between my legs
brought on my milk. Two wet circles appeared over
my nipples.
The thin yellow t-shirt showed everything! The manager
came over again (with more drinks), but I think this time
was just to see me better. He didn’t give us a hard time, though
there was a tiny reminder. At this point I had to pee. There
was a long line in the women’s room, and I didn’t want to wait!
I walked boldly into the men’s room. There were a few clunks
as jaws hit the floor over my teeny skirt and wet shirt. I
walked up to the urinal, spread my lips with my fingers,
and peed perfectly straight where I wanted it. No worries
about panties or skirts for me! I was already pretty wet
between the legs, so I didn’t worry about an extra few drops.
I washed my hands and boldly walked back to Bernice. I was
tipsy and tired.
“Are you ready to go home?” I asked Bernice. She started
to cry. She did not want to go back to her boyfriend’s place,
and she had nowhere else to go. That was a problem with an
easy solution. I told her that my sister would be more than
pleased to have her in the house for the night, and I certainly
would! We caught a cab, she stopped by her place to get a small
bag, and we went to my house. Sis was still up and was astounded,
shocked, and turned on by my appearance. She was thrilled
that I’d found Bernice, and did all she could to make her
feel at home.
But we were ready for bed ‒ not sleep, bed. On my double bed
with satin sheets, Bernice showed me things that I wish
I known 20 years ago. The taste of a woman was so invigorating,
the feel of gentleness and soft breasts on mine was what
I’d always wanted! We were naked on the bed, and she pulled
a couple things from her bag. I wasn’t sure what they were,
shaped very funny yet familiar. She said, “don’t worry
Kerry, this will do more for you than I can do, and she slipped
it into my vagina and turned it on. The sensation was unbearable
yet so pleasuring. I was so full, yet something was tickling
my clitoris. It kept building and building, thought I was
going to scream! I don’t know how long it was, but I had an
orgasm for the first time ever, then I passed out.
The next thing I knew, light was coming in through the window,
and I was in my bed hugging a beautiful, buxom, brown haired
lady. We took a shower together before my son woke up. I introduced
them, and they fell in love with each other. Over breakfast
with sissy we talked of the future. We had an extra room (in
the basement with me) where she could move in. We talked
about a few conditions, and agreed on it being a trial month
to decide if she wants to stay, or if we want her to stay.
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She can have her own room, but I’m hoping that she can spend
most nights in my bed!
Kerry
April 29, 2005 Soulmate113 on dmec.com and gmail
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Afternoon Delight 22/4/2005
She started that sunny Monday morning in February. She
wore her blue jeans, white shirt with a pink petal rose colored
jacket.
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Her shirt hugged her breast just enough to show the outline
of her bra, it was tucked in her what looked like Levi 501
button ups that were boot cut, the fell over her black boots
that she had worn that day.
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Her creamy tanned body stood ...
0 Commentaires, 2192 Consultations,
72 Votes
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What to do !! 21/4/2005
All the ladys out their what should a young single man like
my self do to get a frist date with the ladys out their
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4 Votes
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Don't take to meet your parents! 17/4/2005
Recently I separated from my wife and I have really been
hitting the dating scene hard. Against my better judgement
I went out on a date with a 33 year old women, who I met while
checking out at a local suoermarket. She was the checker.
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I told her in advance where I was taking her to dinner. To
my amazement her parents happen to be dining at the same
restaurant, at the exact ...
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11 Votes
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Outdoor activites 15/4/2005
can be a great first date. Hiking, playing with dogs, frisbee.
Low key and fun. A nice alternative to traditional things.
0 Commentaires, 150 Consultations,
5 Votes
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is it ok to goto somoene's home? 14/4/2005
after you meet - what is the your policy on going back to someones
home?
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14 Votes
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First date top five. 14/4/2005
Dating people is a very difficult game, and if you don´t
take some things into consideration, first dates can drive
people away quite fast.
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Howerver, if you follow these three rules you might find
yourself having breakfast with that special someone,
before "the third date".
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1. Take good care of your hygiene. Although there is people
out there that like dirty ...
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18 Votes
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big women, big fantasy 14/4/2005
I met this gal on the internet. She was a little heavy but
loves to suck cock. Small, big no difference, just as long
as she could taste that sweet cum run down her throat. Well,
we had the chance to meet one weekend, since we both decided
to drive 1/2 way and get a room with a Jacuzzi and a big bed.
Driving there I could almost feel her hand on my rock hard
cock. It kept me excited all ...
3 Commentaires, 1046 Consultations,
20 Votes
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Unforgettable! 13/4/2005
First date I had was going to school dance. We were at that
age where our bodies just oozed with hormones. It was so
evident when were on the dance floor. Neither one of us spoke
much. Our bodies did all the talking. She was a little older
than I was and very hot in her skin tight mini dress.
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We loved to slow dance as we pressed our bodies together.
The heat was intense. She ...
0 Commentaires, 1329 Consultations,
26 Votes
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what do you do on your first date? 11/4/2005
where do you go, what do you do? and even better do you split
the cost.. who pays?
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12 Votes
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Cruising down 95 10/4/2005
I had spoken to this women a few times online but had yet to
see her. I told her that i would be going to a goth club in south
miami so that my buddy could hang out with his girl that was
bartending.
she agreed to meet.
i had figured she would just show up, say hello, then be off.
as usual i was wrong.
the club was pretty crowded for a change and was hard to see
who was who. my ...
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4 Votes
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