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Viewing Profiles as a Standard Member 7/4/2004
I understand as a standard member that we are not able to
view other profiles. That is fine. My biggest complaint
is when someone contacts me who is a paid member, I cannot
see their profile, that is just wrong!! Sure I can respond
to their email, but I would like to know a bit about that person
before I dive in with a reply. If they are sending me a message
or even a wink, I should be ...
0 Commentaires, 5 Consultations,
52 Votes
,8.74 Score
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Silver or Standard? 7/4/2004
I recently up graded to a silver membership from the point
system for one month yet and dmec.com appears to list me as such
showing a membership expiration date. Yet when I try to
contact others the site still blocks me out as a standard
member! What is the deal here?
0 Commentaires, 8 Consultations,
23 Votes
,7.80 Score
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God I hate that... 7/4/2004
I hate when you get emails from these damn women on here(if
they are women) soliciting their sex pay site. If I want
to pay to look at naked women I think I can find them on my own.
Just cut the shit and quit sending that crap!!!
0 Commentaires, 10 Consultations,
25 Votes
,8.33 Score
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standard members and profiles 6/4/2004
This is short sweet and to the point. As a standard memeber
here on dmec.com, I have trouble understanding why it is beyond
our status to see a simple profile for the other members
here on dmec.com. I can understand not seeing photos, but just
getting some information would be better than stabbing
in the dark.
Maybe I'm wrong, and it wouldn't be the first time,
but in all fareness, if we can be ...
0 Commentaires, 24 Consultations,
49 Votes
,9.16 Score
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Re: No Luck 6/4/2004
When I signed up, I quickly became tired of the limitations
of the "standard" membership. I went ahead
and upgraded to Silver and sent out emails to several potential
women.
<br>
Most of the Standard membership women are just fronts to
try to link you to other pay sites. However, I did get responses
back from other Silver and Gold members. Also, I invite
potential members ...
0 Commentaires, 7 Consultations,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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New network page sucks..... 6/4/2004
The old network page was great... everyone was listed right
there easy to read and everything right there! Now the network
page only lists a few friends, only the photo if there is
one and no info other than name. Then if you want to view all
friends on the full page you have to click on the link and
about half the time you get an error message and have to reload.
Go back to the original ...
0 Commentaires, 1 Consultations,
8 Votes
,6.26 Score
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Re: Why doesn't anyone respond? 5/4/2004
Something isn't quite right here. The pieces by themselves
are unremarkable, but put them all together and the whole
is definitely fishy.
<br>
I recently joined dmec.com and became a gold member with high
hopes. So far I've sent out 46 messages to women and
couples in my area. I've had auto-replies from two
women. I've had messages (within dmec.com's system)
from two other women who I ...
0 Commentaires, 5 Consultations,
21 Votes
,6.84 Score
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Distances 5/4/2004
What the hell map is dmec.com's engine looking at?? Hell,
I look at women's profiles in my city and it tells me
that she's too far away for a distance match? What the
hell is that? She can be my nextdoor neighbor <pause
to visualize that one, hhhhmmmmmmmm> and it'll
say she not with in my distance criteria?? Hmmmm, can't
seem to rant anymore still visuallizing, lmfao.
0 Commentaires, 2 Consultations,
3 Votes
,4.90 Score
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Re: Tired of getting "certain pictures" 4/4/2004
I agree with you there, texas_sweetie! ^5 (high-5) LMAO...
Yeah, men, we don't care to see your dicks, please.
0 Commentaires, 11 Consultations,
12 Votes
,4.74 Score
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re: MARRIAGE VOWS 4/4/2004
Well, you have a good question. As I see it, it is not all about
trying something different at all. IT IS ABOUT TRYING ANYTHING
AT ALL. After 16 years of marriage (2nd for us both) there
is nothing left. She has no concern for my sexual needs.
I can give her oral sex, and she will not even touch my private
parts with her hands, let alone doing oral on me. Then she
is through and will ...
0 Commentaires, 10 Consultations,
16 Votes
,5.92 Score
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point system 4/4/2004
Does anyone else have the problem where the total number
of points that one has, is less than the sum of the individual
values. It breaks down my points into the different categories,
but the total is less than the sum of all the values. And I
have not used any of the points yet.
0 Commentaires, 16 Consultations,
6 Votes
,3.65 Score
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deception 3/4/2004
ok i agreed to meet this nice slim guy from kent.uk.we talked
on phone, and he sent me flowers(roses), the night he
turned up.oh my god !!he was at least 20 stone in weight , great
big stomach.i said how old is your pic, he said a few years, i
said how many , he said at least 10 years old.comon guys
, we want a recent pic all your body .not just your dick ok...
0 Commentaires, 10 Consultations,
7 Votes
,5.59 Score
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i dont know why guys like to lead girls on... 2/4/2004
why is it that a guy will come up to a girl to try and HOLLA and
then they ask for the #, go out a couple of times and then just
stop callin all of a sudden out of the blue. it sux. if they
dont want to talk they can just flat out say it but guys are
pussys
1 Commentaires, 15 Consultations,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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STRIPPERS ? SLUTS OR JUST HORNY? 2/4/2004
A WHILE AGO I SLEPT WITH A STRIPPER AND EVEY TIME I HEAR. "STRIPPERS
ARE SLUTS", OR I MIGHT BE A SLUT? (MAKE EX-YES)
0 Commentaires, 16 Consultations,
9 Votes
,0.43 Score
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Lead on..................What's the point? 1/4/2004
Why is it that a guy will contact you chat for a while and you
think it's all going well, and then just stop talking
to you? Do they find it hard to just drop you one line, Not
Interested Anymore......than leave you hanging...C'om
on guy's sort it out, us girlies don't treat you
that way !!!!!!
0 Commentaires, 6 Consultations,
5 Votes
,3.14 Score
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re: is this site for real 31/3/2004
Is this site for real? Yes it can be. You have to sort though
a lot of BS and people wanting you to visit there pay site.
I have been a gold member on and of f for about a year now. At
first I thought this site was the best thing in the world
for someone like me, a married guy looking for fun and adventure
on the side. I found that you have to spend a little time and
just deal with ...
0 Commentaires, 20 Consultations,
2 Votes
,4.50 Score
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Marriage Vows 31/3/2004
I agree with CherishA and her views/opinions about all
the married men out there on dmec.com solicitng single women
who have no interest in messing with married men whatsoever...
<br>
I know people are free to do as they please and maybe they
are telling the truth when they say their wife knows/approves
and all that...but I'm not going to take the chance
that one day karma could bite ...
1 Commentaires, 39 Consultations,
8 Votes
,5.10 Score
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RE: Is this place for real 30/3/2004
I came here for the same reasons. I wanted to meet people,
but what it ended up being is a money-pit. I have only gotten
one legitimate response out of more than 30. Most of what
I ended up with in my Inbox were links to other sited saying
I needed to pay more money. From the looks of things, this
site is a waste of time and money. I just let my Silver membership
expire because of this. ...
0 Commentaires, 2 Consultations,
1 Votes
,1.10 Score
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dmec.com wont answer complaints 30/3/2004
dmec.com won't answer our complaints because they would
have to admit to the fact that the site isn't a good buy
for it's customers. This site is a huge money maker
and they want to keep it that way by taking away the few "tools"
that free members used to have. I highly doubt that I'll
upgrade my membership again just to find more fake ads.
0 Commentaires, 6 Consultations,
5 Votes
,4.77 Score
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Fakes? 30/3/2004
So is it just me, or do the hot young ladies that I would be
attracted to seem like fake placeholders created by the
website developers to keep people interested? Any young
hotties out there to dispute that? dmec.com Webmaster need not
respond =)
0 Commentaires, 33 Consultations,
4 Votes
,4.02 Score
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dmec.com Member Rating System (a la E-bay) 30/3/2004
Hi all,
<br>
Tired of wasting your time emailing people who never get
back or wondering if this person will really really meet
up? Let's do something as a community to rectify that!
<br>
I know dmec.com has the 'Testimonial' section, which
is like Friendster's, except that absolutely no one
uses it. But I think there should be SOME system for us people
who really try to ...
0 Commentaires, 42 Consultations,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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Marriage Vows and dmec.com/Other Friendfinders... 29/3/2004
What happened to the sacred vow of marriage? I know that
this may not be the place to be asking this question, but
everyone I have spoken with cannot give me an answer.
<br>
I'd say 75% of the men who contact me are married. They
aren't listed on the "couples" section
or anything. They aren't looking for another female
to share with or anything. They have simply given up on a ...
0 Commentaires, 26 Consultations,
44 Votes
,3.90 Score
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RE: Why blame everyone else??? 29/3/2004
While the arguments you make are valid in some contexts,
they do not apply across the board as you have generalized.
Sure, there are those who don't read profiles and respond
inappropriately. There are those who obviously cannot
write, cannot contain their vulgarity, have no manners,
or are anything but gentleman. For those types your argument
is right on the money; however, I have the ...
0 Commentaires, 2 Consultations,
17 Votes
,3.69 Score
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is it just my network that dont work??? 29/3/2004
is it just me or since dmec.com changed the style of the network
home page it wont let you view the people in it???? this has
been ever since they changed the look of it. it is the same
with the winks that dont show up any more, get it sorted dmec.com
sum of us pay top money for this and its getting very frustrating
now....thanks
0 Commentaires, 8 Consultations,
17 Votes
,7.51 Score
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Tired of getting "certain pictures" 29/3/2004
I really do not like it when guys email me pictures of just
their dicks! Some guys have it as their profile pic, so when
I check my emails, guess what I get to see! Now if it's
a full-body pic, that's fine. I am not "dick-shopping".
If I choose to have sex with someone, it's with the "whole"
person, and not just their "dicks". Are you
getting this, guys? I have never once looked at a "dick ...
0 Commentaires, 4 Consultations,
41 Votes
,6.22 Score
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RE: dmec.com the truth is out there 28/3/2004
You make a good point to some extent, but it is not entirely
accurate and here's why:
<br>
1. Not everyone has the bar option. I myself am married w/a
small . Don't really have much time to spend hanging
out in bars, but I am looking for sex, as I said, already married,
so I have relationship, and a good one. We just work oppisite
schedules, and I have a high sex drive, so ...
0 Commentaires, 1 Consultations,
11 Votes
,4.66 Score
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RE:RE: shows people online when they're not, ie logout button 28/3/2004
Well, I thought the guy was nuts too, but there is one, it
is at the very bottom of the page, it isn't actually
a button, just the word logloff. At the bottom of the page
there is a very small list of options, at almost the end of
the list on the right hand side is the word logoff. I am assuming
that is what he is talking about. Now, given the way this
site is, it would not surprise me ...
0 Commentaires, 3 Consultations,
26 Votes
,7.34 Score
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RE: why do men look at the picture and judge 28/3/2004
Ok, I'm a woman, but I will respond because I think I
know the answer, guys correct me if I'm wrong. I think
you hit on it in your last comment that men on this site just
want to fuck. Guess what? Thats what this site is basically
about. The tag at the top says find a sex partner, not find
a date. This be may another reason so many guys have problems
hooking up here, the women are not ...
0 Commentaires, 12 Consultations,
31 Votes
,7.75 Score
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Whats up with the ages??? 28/3/2004
I have come across several profiles where the part the person
wrote themselves, says they are one age, but the age listed
on the profile is different. I've even had discprepancies
in the age in the person's message to me and the one on
the profile. Just wondering if this is another dmec.com snafu
or what. I know some of them are probably profiles that the
person has not updated after they had ...
0 Commentaires, 12 Consultations,
13 Votes
,7.00 Score
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RE: why blame everyone else? 27/3/2004
First let me say that I agree with a lot of what you said. I
too often get messages that are exteremly crude or very
obviously have not read the profile, however, I will say
that I know firsthand that guys do have it tougher. My husband
and I have an open relationship, and we both have our own
sites. I, as a woman, picked his pics and helped him write
his profile. I have also helped him ...
0 Commentaires, 11 Consultations,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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