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get a pic 24/8/2004
I have found that when dating through dmec.com
it is wise to get a picture of the person. I have found that
the people that are not willing to send you a picture even
after several chats have something to hide. The something
that they are trying to hide varies but it hardly is ever
good.
<br>
I have had a wonderful experience using dmec.com but would caution
you if you ...
0 Commentaires, 21 Consultations,
76 Votes
,7.87 Score
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Married, , wonderful husband but still looking 23/8/2004
I am married, with a wonderful husband, who does everything
for me, he will even kiss the ground where I walk on, but when
it comes to sex, he always reached climax before I can even
get geared up. And then he is done, go to sleep and not even
bothering how I feel. If this happens once or twice fine,
but not all the time. He does not communicate with me much,
talks more to the than to me, ...
0 Commentaires, 60 Consultations,
104 Votes
,8.42 Score
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Watch the computer meetings 10/8/2004
Especially ladies remember, you have no idea who you are
meeting by just talking on the computer, sending pics ,
talking on the phone etc. A person could totally misrepresent
themselves to you and you would never knoe nti lthe last
minute when you actually meet, so be careful and when you
do meet make for sure that you have someone you trust watching
around you when you meet , and never ...
0 Commentaires, 12 Consultations,
113 Votes
,8.73 Score
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First Date Safety 10/8/2004
I think a very safe way to meet someone from this site (there
could be some weirdos out there, afterall), is to meet in
a very public setting. A restaurant, coffee shop, or even
a park during the day are stellar places to get to know one
another, while ensuring that you're not going over
to some psycho's place blindly.
0 Commentaires, 7 Consultations,
90 Votes
,8.68 Score
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meeting 7/8/2004
okay people,
i know a single girl and she likes to meet guys on the internet
but they all seem to be thugs or want to to be hard up men. She
has had some nice guys but she always rejuects them. Why
is it that alot of big women will go and search for a one night
stand around the world for a probably not even an hour of
fun that you are not going to see again. To me this is not safe
but ...
0 Commentaires, 21 Consultations,
26 Votes
,6.80 Score
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The 10 Best Places 6/8/2004
I know, I know - You work really long hours and you aren’t
spending your Sunday mornings in church, right? You wouldn’t
be caught dead at a single’s event, and you know you can’t
meet anyone decent at a bar. Luckily now you have this list
to refer to when you’ve run out of ideas.
<br>
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Classes/ workshops
On the job
Bookstores/Coffeehouses
Friends ...
0 Commentaires, 31 Consultations,
143 Votes
,6.35 Score
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The 10 Worst Places not to Meet 6/8/2004
Strip bars
Traffic court
The Waiting Room at the Experimental Hemorrhoid Clinic
Prison socials
A Convent
IRS Audit
First day in Rehab
Baby department at K-mart on a Sunday
The Graceland gift shop, at the special edition Elvis decanters
sale table
A ‘Free Charles Manson’ Rally
0 Commentaires, 18 Consultations,
86 Votes
,6.05 Score
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Why are games being played on the site? 3/8/2004
Hello Ladies and Gentlemen! I have encountered in my short
time being on dmec.com lies and deceit. Being on the site not yet
a week. I have come across the most deceitful person I could
imagine. If you have had any dealing with a b/m, 62yoa, 6'1,
average built, living in Huntsville, AL, gold membership,
please let me know. This person has let others view his site
and this person had emailed ...
0 Commentaires, 49 Consultations,
57 Votes
,8.97 Score
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How do you meet people in public?? 24/7/2004
You meet people in public everyday, at the grocery store, gas
station, club, restaurant, etc. Obviously, you're
not meeting all of these people for dating but what if you
were? How would you react? Do you have a back up plan, a safety
net, do you give them your phone # or address if you're
interested in them? Do you talk for a while? Do you follow
your instincts? Meeting people from the ...
0 Commentaires, 18 Consultations,
75 Votes
,8.21 Score
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Telephone info 17/7/2004
When is it safe to give out your telephone info once you have
met someone on the net
0 Commentaires, 20 Consultations,
52 Votes
,0.44 Score
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Have Fun, But Be Safe 16/7/2004
With the modern technology we all love to use these days,
you are more likely to meet a person initially online rather
than in person. Being on a site like this, I don't have
to tell you about all the fun it can be to meet someone online,
but you should not jump in fully trusting just because you
enjoy talking to someone. Here are some things to think
about when conversing with someone ...
0 Commentaires, 10 Consultations,
53 Votes
,7.95 Score
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some simple rules 15/7/2004
I have always found that talking with the person for several
days to a week or so on messenger or something of the like
can help. Ask questions and have them ask you questions,
you can ask the question a couple different times in different
conversations and see if they add up. I will also talk to
them through webcam, just to see if they are who they say
they are so when the meeting comes ...
0 Commentaires, 16 Consultations,
57 Votes
,8.07 Score
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Be sure to be safe 14/7/2004
If your a woman who is looking to meet another woman make
sure you meet in a busy place and dont give out any home telephone
number of address.
<br>
On dmec.com men disguise themselves as women and turn up to meet
you. Its very disappointing and a bit of a shock and you spend
ages trying to get rid of them.
0 Commentaires, 68 Consultations,
10 Votes
,5.58 Score
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Security 9/7/2004
Before a meeting, always find out as much as possible about
the person beforehand, relay the info to a friend, let a
friend know when, where, and how long you plan to meet with
the individual, if you end up elsewhere, call and leave
a message to let the friend know where and also to give descriptions
etc. Always safe than sorry especially with all the crazies
that are lurking about.
0 Commentaires, 7 Consultations,
30 Votes
,8.44 Score
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Please have a back up plan when meeting 30/6/2004
In addition to meeting at a public place (a bookstore that
serves coffee/tea/latte is a good idea) and telling someone
you trust where you will be and when you should be expected
home, have this friend telephone you on your cellular phone
at an appointed time. Agree on a code word so he/she will
know everything is all right. Another word so he/she will
know to call back in half an hour ...
0 Commentaires, 33 Consultations,
74 Votes
,8.70 Score
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Nigeria Scams 25/6/2004
i answered a few personal ads. Someone instant messaged
me. she wanted me to receive items and send them to charities
in Nigeria. I gave my home address. i received some packages
but figured that they were purchased with stolen credit
cards.
The bottom line is it best not to communicate with anyone
in Nigeria.
0 Commentaires, 24 Consultations,
39 Votes
,7.23 Score
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Re: Safety questions: getting to know them and discretion? 22/6/2004
You can give people info about yourself, just be careful
of what you do tell them. For example, do not tell someone
your address, also the people I have met have NO clue what
my last name is. As for those that need to be discreet, I have
met 1, we met at a local restaurant in my city for lunch. Most
people who need to be discreet will not meet within their
own city.
0 Commentaires, 20 Consultations,
43 Votes
,7.17 Score
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Re: PLEASE HAVE A BACK UP PLAN WHEN MEETING 20/6/2004
I read the article and was horrified that some of my female
friends have been lucky enough not to come across such an
encounter. Some have been too trusting with a first meeting
at the places they went to. After reading this article I
fully understand why 1 of my contacts insists on viewing
a web cam. Ladies, if you have not read this article posted
on 5/10/04, please do so. I thank the ...
0 Commentaires, 12 Consultations,
36 Votes
,8.59 Score
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Re: Safety questions: getting to know them and discretion? 20/6/2004
33Mychael hopefully I can give a decent answer to your questions.
Getting to know someone doesn't involve giving out
personal information like home address. Focusing on interests
and type of personality is usually a safe way to keep personal
information out of a conversation. Don't give names
of places you hang out at and keep specifics out of the conversation
when chatting or ...
0 Commentaires, 11 Consultations,
21 Votes
,6.22 Score
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Be Ready! 15/6/2004
Do you know your plans. Be sure U do.
<br>
Fighting is close to dating, ..If you know what sex is,
your gonna have a hard time saying "No, I know what
I'm after." So give me what I want or I'm Outtie."
<br>
Don't do whats not on your mind!
0 Commentaires, 14 Consultations,
22 Votes
,5.41 Score
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A stalker 9/6/2004
Ladies,
<br>
Ever come across a man who refused to take "NO"
for an answer? I have.
As a matter of fact, I came across a man in chat, upper midwest
room, while talking to my buddies. This man was ordering
me to talk about "sex" (just with him) what I
liked, what I wanted so on and so on. During this badgering
session, he constantly reminded me that dmec.com was a sex site,
and ...
0 Commentaires, 21 Consultations,
92 Votes
,9.01 Score
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Safety & Porn 31/5/2004
I find it distressing that viturally none of the major porn
film studios insist on their actors wearing condoms. Only
one or two studios make it mandatory. Sheesh...Would a
contruction worker show up at the site without his hardhat??
The reason most studios refuse to have their actors wear
condoms is because "gonzo" sex sells much better
in the international market than safe and ...
0 Commentaires, 29 Consultations,
83 Votes
,8.06 Score
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Remember : BE CAREFUL 20/5/2004
One of the sad truths of this world is that there ARE people
out there who would delight in causing harm to their fellow
man. Fortunately there are ways to protect yourself. When
meeting someone for the first time, always make sure to
meet on neutral ground, like a restaurant or cafe. Also,
if you hit off with the person, don't rush off to the
nearest hotel room, especially one of your ...
0 Commentaires, 11 Consultations,
78 Votes
,8.06 Score
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hi 20/5/2004
SERIOUS INQUIRES ONLY
23 YEAR OLD FEMALE
FUN AND ENTERGETIC (HAVE A HARD TIME FINDING SOMEONE TO
KEEP UP. UP TO THE CHALLENGE?)
BROWN HAIR AND GREEN EYES
GOOD LOOKING
not looking for a relationship just sex nothing but sex
all day long if interested let me know
<br>
Looking For: Men for Erotic Chat or Email, 1-on-1 sex, Discreet
Relationship or Misc. Fetishes
...
0 Commentaires, 66 Consultations,
74 Votes
,5.07 Score
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Be SAFE when meeting a one nighter! 19/5/2004
If you are planning on meetine someone you dont know or have
just met on the internet, some good saftey tips:
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1. Leave your plans with a trusted friend. Even if you do
not want to go into details, just tell SOMEONE where you
are going and the time you expect to be back.
<br>
2. Charge your cell phone!
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3. Bring along a good # if you need a ride or ...
0 Commentaires, 41 Consultations,
114 Votes
,9.51 Score
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I did the stupidest thing 18/5/2004
I had a few e mail exchanges that went well. I planned a trip
to visit my new buddy. We talked on the net about the possibility
that we might or might not like each other and discussed
what might happen if we didnt. The conclusion was- we would
enjoy each others company anyway. Well, I totally wasnt
attracted to the guy. And he really put on the moves. He even
tried to make me feel guilty ...
0 Commentaires, 38 Consultations,
128 Votes
,9.23 Score
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basic security 16/5/2004
the internet is a wonderful place to meet people for some
very wonderful experiences. however, until you have met
that person in a public place, it is a good idea to keep your
information to yourself
there are many sites that, with a person's full name
and date of birth, you can get their address, telephone
number, and sometimes for a fee a LOT more information.
some of them not ...
0 Commentaires, 16 Consultations,
42 Votes
,6.93 Score
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scammers 10/5/2004
never give any personal info online. too many scammers
out there trying to get over on you.
0 Commentaires, 4 Consultations,
31 Votes
,5.83 Score
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i want to meet a real woman want sex 7/5/2004
my user name is my mobiel nomber i love to fuck lovely woman
and need to loved
i want any kind of age my user name is my mobiel nomber i love
to fuck lovely woman and need to loved
i want any kind of age white or black just lovely woman white
or black just lovely my user name is my mobiel nomber i love
to fuck lovely woman and need to loved
i want any kind of age white or black just ...
0 Commentaires, 4 Consultations,
68 Votes
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Being safe is easier than being lucky 2/5/2004
Sexual predators are not a far-removed threat. They are
real, and you must not even dare think that it'll 'happen
to someone else'. Chances are, one day you could be
'someone else'. Men are not excluded from this,
heterosexual or homosexual. Everyone should be careful.
Some of the things you can do to protect yourself are:
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1. Tell one or more friends where you're going to be ...
0 Commentaires, 18 Consultations,
47 Votes
,8.17 Score
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