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Fake profile. 6/9/2016
Bevare of mature german women +60.
Many of These are- men.
1 Commentaires, 23 Consultations,
8 Votes
,3.71 Score |
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Fake profiles 26/8/2016
dmec.com- you have far too many fake profiles - why?
2 Commentaires, 32 Consultations,
10 Votes
,5.18 Score |
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First time help 25/8/2016
Any advice on meeting someone for the first time from this
site. We both need to be discreet but trying to figure out
how to go about it. Thanks
2 Commentaires, 38 Consultations,
13 Votes
,3.31 Score |
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SAFETY TIPS 25/8/2016
Never let your guard down when it comes to online dating.
Be a sceptic. Prepare for the worst and hope for the best.
It only takes ONE lapse of judgment to end up chained to a
basement wall (or worse).
Don't give out your phone number to anyone you don't
know & trust, and want in your life on at least a semi-regular
basis. There are a dozen alternative methods of communication
to ...
4 Commentaires, 54 Consultations,
10 Votes
,5.18 Score |
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First date locations 18/8/2016
Where do you choose to meet first? do you screen through
the phone? What about time of day? I guess these are all things
to consider today
4 Commentaires, 59 Consultations,
10 Votes
,3.19 Score |
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Be safe! 14/8/2016
Under no circumstance don't give your power
in a relationship. They will run everything from there
on in
0 Commentaires, 17 Consultations,
5 Votes
,2.49 Score |
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Safe Dating In India 27/7/2016
I have a strange story for the readers.
Recently in my city Indore, Police rushed into a park and
humiliated the guys and girls sitting there. All the guys
and girls were asked to produce their ID's
Some girls were asked to call their parents.
They were charged for what? Nobody knows.
Guys and girls were there because Hotels here are not open
to the unmarried ...
0 Commentaires, 18 Consultations,
3 Votes
,1.47 Score |
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safer fun 13/7/2016
it is sad that we come onto a site like this, make an agreement
to meet somewhere to see if we click, get excited, and then
start wondering if it is a setup and you will get mugged or
worse when you meet at that discreet, out of the way place.
does this concern others? I am not one to back out of meeting
someone, but I recently did. I overthought just one sentence
the other person wrote which ...
2 Commentaires, 60 Consultations,
12 Votes
,3.86 Score |
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the next day 7/7/2016
The next as I got to work the boss was the only one on site.
I ask where was the rest of the crew and he said we're
the only ones today. I said what are we going to do then and
he rubbed his crotch and said you can get over here and take
care of this.
I laughed and said really what do you want me to do and he said
get over here and suck my cock . I looked at him and ask
you serious ...
1 Commentaires, 218 Consultations,
31 Votes
,5.64 Score |
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If you meet some online . 4/7/2016
If you are meeting someone online I make sure they are real.
Make sure there photo is real. Talk to them on the phone.
Meet at a public place.
5 Commentaires, 53 Consultations,
24 Votes
,1.31 Score |
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find out if somebody's telling the truth online 3/7/2016
The way I find out about somebody if they're for real
I start asking him some questions. How to go with my gut feeling
as well too. If I feel funny with my gut feeling about this
person I simply do not go try to meet this person at all. I
just simply find somebody else it was real and is honest.
1 Commentaires, 41 Consultations,
15 Votes
,0.38 Score |
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Just wondering how women screen the crazy guys out. 19/6/2016
Guys don't tend to worry about being taking advantage
of by woman they date, at least not in a physical way. However,
it seems like that would be a big concern for women, especially
if they don't the guy they are going out with. What do
woman do to avoid a-holes?
3 Commentaires, 40 Consultations,
9 Votes
,3.64 Score |
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Lover, FWB, Friend, Acquaintance or (FBM) Fucking Big Mistake 2/6/2016
Last night while catching up with my several online Scrabble
Games and emptying my DVR (Old Good Wife Episodes, Black
Sails, Suits etc..yes I am a true geek at heart) my phone
started blowing up with texts from a woman I have known albeit
briefly from my past. Yes, an email / text is nice when you are hearing from an ex-lover
who is checking in to say hello and to try and catch up on life ...
1 Commentaires, 81 Consultations,
7 Votes
,2.79 Score |
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Public Place Always 29/4/2016
I have found that when meeting for the first time it is always
the safest to meet in some agreed upon safe, public place.
There is always time to go somewhere if the chemistry clicks
and each want to take it further. If not agreeable, it is
easy to walk away in a public place.
I once met a beautiful mid aged woman who had texted, then
talked by cell and wanted to meet, presumably for ...
5 Commentaires, 54 Consultations,
14 Votes
,5.06 Score |
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Confirm ID and Dating Safety 22/4/2016
We are HUGE advocates of the Confirm ID process that dmec.com
offers. First of all, it costs nothing to do and it gets you
2000 points for free! Second of all, when reaching out to
others who might be nervous that you are either fake or you
are a person that means to mislead them or do them harm, it
lets them know that you are a much safer bet than many others,
because your actual name and address ...
2 Commentaires, 65 Consultations,
20 Votes
,6.57 Score |
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Illusion of Delusion 31/3/2016
I recently met a member who contacted me claiming to be something
he was clearly not. I erred in not taking things more slowly.
There is a tendency for men on this site to rush and "close
the deal." This is understandable because the more
time women are given to think and process information the
more likely "no" is. A few reasonable correspondences
on this site are not enough to agree to meet ...
2 Commentaires, 59 Consultations,
25 Votes
,6.23 Score |
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Keeping yourself safe 2/2/2016
I was recently asked about meeting a couple from my area.
I agreed to meet in a very public place and informed them
I would be accompanied by a male. They asked why I thought
it was necessary to bring someone who wasn't going
to be involved in any activities we might decide to engage
in. I replied that as a single female it was for my safety.
Their reaction was out of this world. Asked if I ...
18 Commentaires, 256 Consultations,
40 Votes
,6.75 Score |
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"Sexual respect" and "Sexual disrespect" -The power of "Yes" and "No". 17/1/2016
The community here, and most any dating sites, being usually
fewer women, there is a concern about sexual respect from
men, towards women. As any civilized community, that is
usually enforced.
However men don't talk about a woman's sexual
disrespect of the male. Men don't report it, don't
talk about it, and usually dismiss it as not important because
we're men. But really, sexually ...
2 Commentaires, 90 Consultations,
51 Votes
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So someone wants to travel to see me... 25/12/2015
I've had a few people say they're willing to travel
to see me. I realize a lot of them are just saying that and
there are others who are visiting around my area so they're
not here for me but they want a quick fuck (which isn't
my thing).
My questions is this: is there like an acceptable distance
threshold? Like if you're in San Diego and want to see
me, that seems normal. But lets say ...
13 Commentaires, 138 Consultations,
38 Votes
,6.64 Score |
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Some of these Men think they are going just go F.ck 16/11/2015
Some men send me a message "come over to my house and
let's f.ck", They are not thinking right. We
need to set a time up to meet each other, see if we are attracted
and like each other. I am not a free . Sure
and call girls will come over as soon as you envite them,
it's business and money to them. These are grown adult
men acting so immature about trying to get laid. This the
real world, it ...
10 Commentaires, 98 Consultations,
31 Votes
,6.79 Score |
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straight guy wants TS/Shemale 1/11/2015
I'm a straight guy, separate for 3 years, with
whom always had a fantasy of being involved in a sexual intimacy
with a TS/Shemale. I've seen a lot of videos online
n I must say there are a lot of very feminine looking sexy
attractive TS/Shemales whom I would love to be intimate
with. I would like to meet a very feminine girl with big tittis
n a cock no bigger than 6". She has to have a feminine ...
2 Commentaires, 67 Consultations,
7 Votes
,3.04 Score |
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Doms 17/10/2015
Should they be used under [in] all circumstances [meetings]?
I was with the same lady for over 20+ years, before she left
this world -for a better place I pray- and I refuse to wear
the damn things. I tried once & she loved it, but I didn't
really feel much of anything and the latex gave me a rash
that lasted for days. Now, I try to explain that I'm
'fixed' + D&D Free. This seriously limits
my ...
1 Commentaires, 38 Consultations,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score |
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Keep safe 21/9/2015
Ask questions out with people's comfort zones.
2 Commentaires, 17 Consultations,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score |
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Know What You're Getting Into 31/8/2015
I was drinking one time and I had been chatting with a lady
online and before I saw her pictures I sent her some pics
of me including some dick pics and then she sent me her pics, and
I was attracted to her, but I realized that I was drunk and
so I stopped the chat abruptly and didn't respond to
any more emails.I had said that I was thinking about going
to her toewn, but I never said that I was ...
8 Commentaires, 156 Consultations,
18 Votes
,3.81 Score |
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your date takes down your license plate number 27/8/2015
you have a date and decide to get a room and enjoy intimate
time together, he says he needs to go get ice, I look out the
curtain to see what he was doing . He was writing down the
license plate number off my car. The question is why is he
doing this ? Your date is dicreet, but to mee that is not right
to do that. He can have it traced and find out where I live.
That is danger. Nothing ever ...
7 Commentaires, 114 Consultations,
18 Votes
,4.63 Score |
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Meeting 15/8/2015
Where's the best place to meet?
3 Commentaires, 33 Consultations,
5 Votes
,3.47 Score |
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General Rules 15/8/2015
1. Never leave your drink unattended. 2. Don't be a slut 3. don't let random dude grope you at the club 4. carry pepper spray 5. Buddy system 6. Don't get roofied 7. ihop is a fantastic dating spot if you want to avoid getting
"taken advantage of" 8. Wear a chastity belt at all times and swallow the key 9. get a chiuaua to carry in your purse, make sure he is vicious
10. stomp a bitch if ...
3 Commentaires, 53 Consultations,
26 Votes
,6.58 Score |
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He was a no show, or was he ? 13/8/2015
well, I went to my meet up at a café, but he never showed up.
OR did he ? I noticed a man sitting in a blue truck as I was going
into the café. I looked at him, and went on in. I finally
left after having iced tea and cinnamon roll. As I was going
to my car, the man was still parked there. I got into my car
and drove away slowly. Then, in the rear view mirror he was
driving too. I turned out ...
10 Commentaires, 155 Consultations,
23 Votes
,4.41 Score |
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Most pressing thing 15/6/2015
with advent of many crimes it becomes very important that
one is very careful, choosy while dating some one who has
been met online only. The following steps might be helpful.
1. meet in public place (with lot of people around) till
u develop confidence 2. try to get references. 3. try for a common friend. If found try to dig more information
4. Don't take any decisions when u r horny
5 Commentaires, 43 Consultations,
11 Votes
,2.79 Score |
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Would you like to know when.... 10/5/2015
Having sex is fun, rewarding, intimate and in our nature.
Knowing when your partner is having an orgasm is a turn on
and adds to the sexual experience. Some people like to know
when their partner is about to cum and cumming, so my question
is for both men and women do you like to know your partner
is about to cum and is in the process of cumming? Also how
do you like to know, verbally(I am going ...
3 Commentaires, 40 Consultations,
14 Votes
,3.30 Score |